CHANGE OF PLANS. This is a must read!
Peej and I have decided on a backyard family wedding... With all the planning and constant turning down of places to be married, I felt a heart attack coming on at the age of 22. I now realize planning a wedding of a much bigger stature then of what I initially wanted was going to take a lot more time then two months to plan. Plus finding an adequate place July 4th just wasn't going to happen. So, I've decided to be selfish and do what we were planning to do from the start. A small, simple, and much easier wedding. The word easier makes me sound as if I am being lazy. Maybe I am. All I know is that I was focused on all the wrong things during the pregnancy that I once (about 3 months ago) really wanted to plan, document, and pay attention to unlike I did with my Talon pregnancy. I didn't want to miss a beat, a kick, a day of reading about mine and my babies progress together. I wanted to cherish every second of this pregnancy, and that's what I intend to get back to starting today. Things have been crazy, and I just need to take some deep breaths and relax for now.
We've also decided to have another ceremony and reception when my lover gets back from Afghanistan. This will be perfect. More time to plan, more money to spend, more time to inform, and more time to sit back and know that I have time. I feel a hundred times better today.
Sorry I've been a goner my closest friend. Once my breathing technique is back to normal I shall give you all a call and tell you of the love I have for you.
4 comments:
oh you are so silly. so should i not plan on getting the 4th off to come there?
Your pics are going to be great, I had fun treking through the wilderness with you guys last night!!
it takes me anywhere from 1-3 weeks to edit and i will let you know as soon as there done! :)
Nope no plans to come here unless your gonna visit yo mamma! I'm sure she'd love that! :) Sorry!!
Aw im glad you found peace with the whole wedding schnanagan (is that how its spelt :P ) Im excited for your family pictures!!! Cant wait to see em! And no worries in the friend department, i know you have been supper busy gettin' in as much family time as you can!! We will have lots of play dates after things settle down a bit!! Love you!
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